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Create Freedom and Femme Wealth

Luxury Femme,

Welcome to this week’s special birthday edition of Luxury Muse. As I celebrate my birthday and reflect on my luxury journey, I would like to share heart-from-heart with you my personal insights into creating my quiet luxury business, one that gives me freedom, aligns with my feminine energy, and creates the femme wealth and quiet luxury life. This journey has been about embracing true wealth, not only in finances but in time, joy, and purpose.

My wish is that these reflections inspire you to build your own business and life of quiet luxury. And to celebrate my birthday, I have a special announcement and bonus for you.


Luxury Business

The luxury is not just in the money, but in the time freedom.

I intentionally designed my business with a focus on quality over quantity adopting a quiet luxury model.

I know that I don’t enjoy working with volume, and I luxuriate in serving a selective of high-value clients who value my expertise and the profound, transformative work we co-create together. As I continue mastering my art and craft as the Créme da la Créme in what I do,  these muti-5-figure clients choose to invest in themselves and me again and again, bringing growth and relationships that elevate both my clients’ experiences and my own joy in my work. The high fulfilment, intimacy and profits from the luxury model have enabled me to prioritize freedom, creativity, and high-level service over hustle and constant output.

Instead of focusing on what can make me money today, I focus on building assets that can generate revenue for me even not just today but also in the days to come when I am not working. My luxury personal brand, my content and authority portfolio, my luxury client attraction system that aligns with my feminine energy, my curated luxury client experience and ecosystem, my collaboration and partnerships with other luxury brands, my authority-building media features etc, my inner circle Luxury Muse audience who values my brand and returns time and again… All of these are the assets I built that have given me exponential growth in the past years and the freedom in my business without needing me attend to my business 24/7 like a baby.

Today, I work in my business for less than 10 hours a week and generate more income and freedom than when I was working 48 hours a week, which allows me to deeply enjoy my life and purpose. Femme wealth isn’t just about financial gain; it’s about the freedom of choosing how and where to invest my energy and time. This quiet luxury model allows me to truly enjoy serving my clients, building my brand, and experiencing quiet luxury every step of the way.

How can you refine your business model to embrace quality over quantity and create freedom and femme wealth leveraging assets?


Luxury Femme

Embracing the Art of Being Provided For

Through the years, I’ve come to understand the true beauty of the feminine—her nature to receive. I’ve opened myself to be fully provided for by the masculine, by the Universe, and by the divine energy in me.

Shifting my belief on “being provided for” has allowed me to release any negative association around it and embrace it fully. Being provided for means allowing others, the world, and myself to support me in ways that expand my capacity to receive. It doesn’t mean I am not worthy or I cannot support myself. I can be independent and support myself through my business, but at the same time, I am the feminine being provided for and allow myself to fully receive.

This openness has been transformative. My ability to receive continues to grow, attracting clients, opportunities, gifts, luxury experiences, and financial abundance. Today, my intuition and my feminine body’s response are my guidance in everything I do. Listening to my intuition takes practice because the soul is always whispering to us, even when it doesn’t align with logic. This alignment connects me with a luxury frequency, which is a powerful attractor of all my desires. Human Design and Matrix of Destiny are two of my favourite supporting systems in aligning myself in my design and imprint.

For me, being wealthy means living in harmony with my feminine nature, welcoming the flow of abundance and support from all around me. Manifesting wealth, in this sense, is less about hard work and more about cultivating trust and ease. I am continually expanding my capacity to receive, trusting that the Universe provides everything I need as I stay in alignment with my highest self.

How can you allow yourself to be deeply provided for in every area of your life? How can you open yourself to receive more?


Luxury Connoisseur

Curating a life that takes your breath away

The quiet luxury connoisseur lifestyle is for me, not for displaying it for others.

There was a time when my bookshelf was filled with self-help and diet books, as if there was always something that needed fixing. Now, my bookshelf, home, and life are curated with elements that feed my mind, body and soul: art, poetry, beauty, gourmet experiences, style, investment savvy, and a sense of refinement that enriches my world.

There was also a time when I constantly posted stories about my lifestyle to get views and likes and bought into the belief that I need to post my luxury lifestyle to attract luxury clients. Now my quiet luxury life is privacy, time and quality. I truly don’t desire to post my lifestyle, don’t need any validation from others, and don’t believe that’s the way to attract luxury clients.  

I adore the mystique, the privacy, the peace, live with intention, being present and savouring and making each moment more pleasurable. I am creating a life filled with moments that take my breath away, and this quiet luxury connoisseur lifestyle is for me, not for displaying it for others.

And it’s like a beautiful energetic circle: as I designed my business not only to be my vessel of purpose, but also to support this lifestyle, and in return, living my life fully fuels my energy and creativity for my clients, my purpose, and giving back to the people I love. For me, that’s the true yin and yang balance. It’s about allowing both feminine and masculine energy to flow in harmony, creating the masculine container to allow the feminine to feel safe and supported, to flow, to receive.


My wish is that these reflections inspire you to build your own business and life of quiet luxury. My heart is filled with gratitude, especially for you. Thank you for joining me on this path, for your love and support along the way, and for allowing me to fulfil my soul’s purpose of bringing true luxury and beauty to the world.

To celebrate, I’m opening the early enrolment to the Quiet Luxury Luxmind, an intimate exclusive space I’ve designed for those ready to create their own path to femme wealth and freedom. This isn’t another “mastermind” —it’s a “luxmind” where you’ll be fully supported in aligning your business and life with the essence of quiet luxury.

If you resonate with what I shared in this issue, I would love to support you to create that for you in your own luxurious way. For the luxury femmes who join the early enrolment, you will not only get the early investment pricing, but also the bonus of my Luxuria8te program and a VIP 90-minute wealth activation session to fully support you before we officially start the Luxmind in January 2025.

Until next time, stay exquisite. And remember, luxury brand, it’s very you.

Luxury Brand and Wealth Mentor